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Dear Aunt Vadge,
Recently, my boyfriend and I were fooling around together when I was on the third day of my period. Right after that, my vaginal opening started burning.
I have had sex before, but the last time I had sex it didn’t burn. I don’t know what is wrong with my vagina, and I am really scared.
Sincerely,
Burning
Age 21
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Dear Burning,
Sorry to hear you are suffering! A burning feeling in the vagina isn’t very pleasant, and yes, it can be scary if you’re not sure what’s wrong.
A burning sensation can be caused by improper technique on the part of your partner, and you being unprepared for the act in terms of sexual arousal.
Being ready
If you eat when you are not hungry, your mouth can be really dry, and the food just sits there. However, if you eat when you’re hungry, your saliva flows, you feel ravenous, smells are exciting, and the food tastes amazing (even if it’s average) because your body was ready and willing to receive it.
In the same way, you need your body to be prepared for a penetrative act, or it not only doesn’t feel good, but the potential for damage is much higher, which can result in burning. Just because it can go in there doesn’t mean it should.
Suggest that your boyfriend read this guide for tips.
Rule out an infection
If the burning continues, make an appointment with your doctor to be checked out and get some tests run to rule out an infection. Infections are the leading cause of a burning vagina, but they are not the only cause.
Where to get help
If you’re feeling worried, you start to bleed, or there is a worsening pain, visit your local sexual health clinic or doctor to be examined. It is advisable not to have any sexual activity when you have damaged yourself; let it heal, and then try again another time.
Warmest regards,
Aunt Vadge
References1
- 1.Eschenbach DA, Thwin SS, Patton DL, et al. Influence of the Normal Menstrual Cycle on Vaginal Tissue, Discharge, and Microflora. Clinical Infectious Diseases. Published online June 1, 2000:901-907. doi:10.1086/313818
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