Aunt Vadge: did I lose my virginity or is this my period? Or both?
Hello Aunt,Â
Yesterday my boyfriend entered his penis by mistake to my vagina, but not deep at all, I just felt something and at the same moment I thought I was bleeding and lost my virginity because there was lots of blood. But, today when I woke up I found out the am having my period, and it’s the same blood, which didn’t seem to stop. The question is, did I lose my virginity or is it just my period and he helped it to go out easier? Plus I didn’t have any pain till now coming from my vagina.
Please respond as soon as possible, as I am so worried.Â
Yours,
Worried
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Dear Worried,
The blood is almost certainly your period and there is no need to worry unless there was pain.
The virginity question is actually a sort of complicated thing, since virginity isn’t a real thing. It’s a made-up word that doesn’t very clearly cover sex in all of it’s forms. It mainly means ‘a penis in a vagina’, which technically, you sort of did, but it wasn’t the whole penis, ‘so does it count?’. These are valid questions.
We’ve tried to answer the virginity question here, so have a read and see what you think!
https://myvagina.com/what-being-a-virgin-actually-means
https://myvagina.com/aunt-vadge-he-put-the-tip-in-am-i-still-a-virgin/
Write anytime.
Warmest regards,
Aunt Vadge Â
