Hello Aunt Vadge,
So I’m 17 and my boyfriend has fingered me multiple times now and it’s was fine. But recently the last two times were very different. The second-to-last time he was very aggressive and it was uncomfortable, and he scratched me, and I started to bleed and it was very uncomfortable. But the last time he did it, it wasn’t painful at all and I was very aroused, however I still bled this time. I’m not to sure what to exactly think but I’m just very confused as to why I bled this time, because of how comfortable I was with it.
Help!
M
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Dear M,
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- How long between the last aggressive fingering and this latest fingering was it and when is your period due?
- Did your boyfriend do anything differently this time? (like go deeper, have long fingernails?)
- Have you identified where exactly the bleeding is coming from?
- How much blood is there?
- Can you feel pain?