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Hi Aunt Vadge,
I’ve had redness and itching that comes and goes for a week. I haven’t changed soaps, products, detergent or diet – nothing’s different in 10+ years. I shower daily, use plain Dial bar soap, and change my cotton underwear daily.
The one thing that happened: I had to wipe back to front after a bowel movement (my back was sore), and got some stool on my vulva. The itching and redness started that same day. My OBGYN did a culture, prescribed Diflucan – it helped for a few hours, then the itch came back.
The result just says ‘commensal flora present’, and they say that’s normal. The nurse thinks it’s an irritant or allergy, but I haven’t changed anything! Should I get a second opinion? What bacteria from stool could cause this?
Sincerely,
Itchy
Age 32, USA
Dear Itchy,
Trust your own detective work here, because it’s spot on – and your nurse is, gently, wrong. This isn’t a sudden allergy to something you’ve used for a decade. You told me exactly what happened: you introduced faecal bacteria to your vulva with that one back-to-front wipe, and they’ve thrown your vaginal balance off.
Two clues confirm it: the timing (it started that very day), and the fact that Diflucan didn’t fix it, so it isn’t yeast.
The bacteria that hitch a ride from the bowel are usually Escherichia coli and Enterococcus faecalis, and in the vagina they cause an imbalance called aerobic vaginitis (AV) – the redness and itch you’re feeling – and they can also seed UTIs.
As for why your test ‘came back normal’: a standard culture only grows certain bacteria and reports the rest as ‘commensal flora’, so it really can miss what’s irritating you – that’s not proof you’re fine, it’s the limits of the test.
What you want is a comprehensive vaginal microbiome test, which catalogues everything, including the gut bugs a culture skips; take those results back to your doctor, and if they’re still stuck you can book an appointment with one of our practitioners, because sorting out exactly this kind of microbiome muddle is what we do.
In the meantime, always wipe front to back (you know this – it was a one-off) and don’t reintroduce more, wash with plain water only for now since antibacterial bar soaps are drying and can add to the irritation, and know that with a robust microbiome mild cases can settle on their own – just don’t let it drag on, because AV is easier to clear early.
You’re not imagining it, and you’re not allergic to your life: it’s the wrong bugs in the wrong place, findable and fixable.
Love,
Aunt Vadge
This is general information based on current research and our clinical experience, not a substitute for personalised medical advice.
