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Hi Aunt Vadge,
I have a tear between my vagina and urethra, and it has been bleeding for going on 3 days.
Should I be concerned, and what can I do to assist with the healing? It hasn’t been a steady flow, but my movement throughout the day seems to increase the flow. I am 36, and during digital penetration, my boyfriend scratched me.
Sincerely,
Scratched
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Hi Scratched,
It sounds like a trip to the doctor is in order, as the bleeding should have stopped by now. It’s important to see a healthcare provider for an examination as soon as possible. It is not normal to bleed from anywhere on your body from a cut for three days.
In the meantime, here are some tips on how to deal with vulvar cuts and tears. Keep your vulva clean by washing yourself gently with warm water, avoiding irritation, when you bathe or shower. Avoid using soap or even a washcloth to avoid irritating the area further.
When you urinate, pour a little warm water over your vulva to reduce any stinging from urine, and pat dry gently with tissue paper.
Vaseline or paw paw ointment can be useful in helping to create a waterproof barrier between the mucosa and your underwear. Gently apply a little to the entire area. Avoid wearing your best underwear with Vaseline or pawpaw, as both can stain.
Avoid any activity (jogging, tight pants, etc.) that irritates the area, and avoid touching it as it heals. Remember that skin is always trying to heal, and if it can’t for some reason, see your healthcare provider for an examination. They can help you.
Good luck and happy healing!
Aunt Vadge
