Aunt Vadge: I just had a baby and have a tear in my labia – what can I do to soothe it?

She has a tear between her labia after giving birth, but it's too painful to even look at. What should she do?

Aunt Vadge: I had sex, now I’m bleeding, but I’m too scared to tell my mum – what should I say?

A 16-year-old had sex, and has started bleeding and it won't stop. How does she get her mum to take her to the doctor without telling her about the sex?

Aunt Vadge: I gave my boyfriend a BJ, then about 20 minutes later his penis touched my vag – can I get pregnant?

Can sperm survive when it's dried, on a penis, and then get me pregnant after 15 minutes?

Aunt Vadge: my period is 10 days late – am I pregnant or is it something else?

Her period is late. She had sex but used a condom - so what else could it be?

Aunt Vadge: my vulva is really, really sensitive

She has an over-sensitive vulva that feels like it burns and stings when she pees, and she's dry all the time. What's wrong?

Aunt Vadge: I have a tear on my urinary meatus that won’t heal

Her uterus was removed and mesh inserted to hold it together, but there is now scar tissue around her uterus, and a tear on her urinary meatus that won't heal. What can she do?

Aunt Vadge: painful sex that has resulted in a tear and brown discharge

After sex, it hurts to pee and there is a brownish discharge. What's happened and what should she do?

Aunt Vadge: weird smell after sex with a condom

Every time she has sex with a condom, the next day, an unusual and unpleasant smell comes from her vagina. What's going on?

Aunt Vadge: how can I help my girlfriend have a vaginal orgasm?

A 24-year-old man wants to know how to give his girlfriend a vaginal orgasm. We review some ideas on how to get her there.

Aunt Vadge: why am I so sore after fingering?

She was fingered for the first time, and now it stings when she pees. Why?

Aunt Vadge: I’m really scared of breaking my hymen

She's scared of the pain of her hymen breaking and first sex. What should she do?

Aunt Vadge: can fingering bring on a double period?

Can fingering bring on a period twice in one month? Short answer - no. We explain why.

Aunt Vadge: My vagina is itchy after being fingered

She was fingered, and now her vagina is itchy. Plus, can a doctor tell?

Aunt Vadge: his precum touched me – could I be pregnant?

How fertile is precum and did it get me and what if it did and am I ovulating? We discuss.

My Vagina’s repository

Articles about bacterial vaginosis, aerobic vaginitis (AV), yeast infections and more

Aunt Vadge: The tip (with a condom on) went in – could I be pregnant?

Her boyfriend just put the tip in, for the very first time, and there was blood and pain, but is she pregnant?

Aunt Vadge: I used hotel soap and now my vulva hurts

She is sore and itchy from hotel soap. Why?

I’m a swim teacher – will the BV treatment still work if I’m in water all day?

We discuss the impact of water submersion on the treatment.

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