Aunt Vadge: new guy’s into CNC, but won’t stop when I tell him to
If a partner keeps going after you say stop, or chokes you, that's not a kink - it's sexual assault. How to stay safe, and where to get support.
Aunt Vadge: he force-dry humped me; was I raped?
Understanding the nuances between rape and sexual assault is crucial for survivors seeking clarity and support. This article delves into the definitions, offering guidance on steps to take if you've experienced such an incident, emphasizing the importance of recognizing all forms of sexual misconduct as serious and actionable offences.
Aunt Vadge: my girlfriend was sexually abused – how can I help her with sex?
Supporting a partner who survived sexual abuse starts with trust, not sex - going slowly, and getting proper support.
Aunt Vadge: I got touched through my clothes and now it’s bleeding and sore
Bleeding and stinging after being rubbed through your clothes is usually a graze that heals in days – here's how to soothe it, and when to get checked.
What to Do if You Have Been Raped [Pandora’s Project]
Here Pandora's Project explains what to do if you have been sexually assaulted or raped.

