Aunt Vadge: why am I dry during sex and can’t orgasm?
Hi Aunt Vadge,
What causes vaginal dryness, and what causes a female not to experience orgasm?
It is happening to me. I easily get dried during sex which is about 2 minutes. And I have never reached orgasm.
I am not sexually aroused during sex when I get dry, I have regular periods, and I do not masturbate.
Best,
P.
Age: 23
Country: Tema
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Dear P.
To be wet during sex, you need to be turned on! If you are not turned on, then there is zero point in having sex. It will hurt and you will be dry and it will not be fun.Â
I would start with masturbating – you need to figure out what being turned on feels like, and that starts with you. Here’s some advice on masturbating if you’re not familiar!
Read this for starters – How girls masturbate.
Get masturbating! : )
Once you know what turns you on, and where you like being touched, you can teach your partner how to do it too, so you can work together to get you orgasming during sex.
You should also use lube during sex. If you’re not sure or can’t afford to buy lube, coconut oil is a good place to start.
Best,
Aunt Vadge
