Something else? Ask Aunt Vadge – bottom left of your screen!Aunt Vadge: suddenly getting TOO wet during sex – what’s wrong?
Suddenly too wet during sex and STI/BV tests are clear? The likely benign causes - cervical ectropion, a hormonal shift, or changed friction - and what to check.
Aunt Vadge: I’m cycling between yeast and BV, now I have HPV
Cycling between yeast and BV, and now a positive Pap? Both are common and manageable - how to break the cycle, and what a positive HPV result really means.
Aunt Vadge: I can’t find my vagina!
Can't find your vaginal opening for a tampon? It's not an obvious hole - it's tucked in soft folds. A gentle, step-by-step guide to finding it.
Aunt Vadge: I’m 35, a virgin, and I’ve got questions about sex!
Scared first-time sex will hurt, especially after a painful exam? It can absolutely be pleasurable - how to ease into penetration at your own pace.
Aunt Vadge: is this my period or an injury?
Bleeding after being fingered - your period or a minor injury? How to tell the difference, when to see a doctor, and the PCOS angle.
Aunt Vadge: yeast-like symptoms, but negative tests
Yeast-like symptoms but negative tests? It could be missed yeast, aerobic vaginitis or cytolytic vaginosis - here's how to tell, and why diagnosis matters.
Aunt Vadge: recurrent GBS vaginitis – help!
Recurrent group B strep (GBS) vaginitis that keeps returning? Why it recurs, a natural option with evidence, and how to find the underlying driver.
Aunt Vadge: I hate the look of my labia
Hate your 'roast beef' labia? Longer inner labia are completely normal and sexually sensitive - why not to 'fix' them, and how to sort the odour.
Aunt Vadge: recurrent BV since I was 12
Recurrent BV that flares with sweets and stress? The fix is often in your gut and blood sugar - here's the whole-body approach, with the evidence.
Aunt Vadge: Gardnerella UTI, but NP says it’s BV – help!
Gardnerella in your bladder but told it's just BV contamination? It's a recognised urinary pathogen - here's the evidence, and the perimenopause angle.
Aunt Vadge: new guy’s into CNC, but won’t stop when I tell him to
If a partner keeps going after you say stop, or chokes you, that's not a kink - it's sexual assault. How to stay safe, and where to get support.
Aunt Vadge: vaginal fungal infection but can’t use Diflucan
Vaginal yeast infection but can't take Diflucan? Topical and botanical antifungals - and the safety must-knows if you have kidney disease or other conditions.
Aunt Vadge: is my wife cheating on me?
Worried a labial tear means cheating? It isn't - small labial splits have many everyday, non-sexual causes. The clinical facts, and a kinder way forward.
Aunt Vadge: I’m nearly postmenopausal and my vagina hurts – what’s happening?
Painful sex near menopause? It could be vaginal dryness (GSM), vulvodynia, or both - how to tell them apart, what helps, and why vaginal oestrogen is gold standard.
Aunt Vadge: I masturbated today and there was blood on my fingers – why?
A little blood after masturbating, just after your period ended? It's almost always harmless - usually leftover period blood. The reasons, and when to get checked.
Aunt Vadge: I’m pregnant and struggling with BV and UTIs
Pregnant and battling constant BV, UTIs and yeast? Why severe pain needs urgent review, why to skip boric acid, and how to address the nutrient and gut drivers safely.
Aunt Vadge: BV, yeast, UTIs – nothing is working! Help!
A year of recurrent BV, yeast and UTIs and nothing works? Why the antibiotic cycle keeps it going, and how your gut and hormones may be the real drivers.
Aunt Vadge: yeast infection, now yellow discharge – what is happening?
Yellow discharge and bumps, but fluconazole isn't working? It's probably not just yeast - more likely aerobic vaginitis. How to get the right diagnosis and tests.
Aunt Vadge: his precum touched me – can I be pregnant?
Precum touched the outside (clit and outer lips) - can you get pregnant? It's very low risk. The honest answer, plus emergency contraception and cycle facts.
Aunt Vadge: we did anal-vaginal sex and now I have AV that won’t go away
Aerobic vaginitis (E. coli, E. faecalis) that won't clear for years? It's usually refed from a gut reservoir - why treating the gut, not just the vagina, works.