Something else? Ask Aunt Vadge – bottom left of your screen!Aunt Vadge: fingering questions – will I bleed again? Should I use lube?
Will fingering make my period late? Should he use lube? Will I bleed again? Straight answers to the common fingering questions.
Aunt Vadge: I am confused about the consequences of fingering. Help!
A sweet and curious virgin is confused about what is supposed to happen after she is fingered by her boyfriend.
Aunt Vadge: body swollen after sex
Experiencing swelling after sex? It might be a semen allergy. Discover symptoms, management tips, and why seeing a professional is crucial.
Aunt Vadge: why can’t I go deeper?
Why you might feel too tight to go deep, what's really going on, and gentle ways to make penetration comfortable.
Aunt Vadge: Why do I keep getting yeast infections?
A woman keeps getting vaginal yeast infections, but doesn't understand why. What's going on?
Aunt Vadge: vulva scratch that won’t heal
A scratch that won't heal at the vaginal opening in menopause is usually thin, low-oestrogen skin - how to soothe it and when to get checked.
Aunt Vadge: bits come out of me after sex – why?
Why you might see fleshy bits after sex or hard fingering, what they usually are, and when it's worth a doctor's look.
Aunt Vadge: will this cut on my clitoris ever heal?
A small cut on or near the clitoris almost always heals fast - here's how to look after it and when to get it checked.
Aunt Vadge: scratch that won’t heal
A scratch or tear that's still bleeding after a few days needs checking - the red flags to act on, and how to care for it meanwhile.
Aunt Vadge: I’m quite dry and my vagina burns – am I infected?
Vaginal dryness and burning isn't always an infection - the common causes, what to try at home, and when to get a swab.
Aunt Vadge: burning after intimacy during my period
Why your vaginal opening might burn after sex during your period, and the simple things that stop it.
Aunt Vadge: Do I have a short vagina?
A firm wall two fingers deep is usually the cervix or a tense pelvic floor, not a short vagina. What that block is, and how to sort it.
Aunt Vadge: why do I have a dry patch on my labia?
A dry, cracking patch on one labia is almost always a treatable skin issue, not an infection or anything you have done.
Aunt Vadge: why do tampons hurt to put in?
Tampons hurting to put in is usually tense muscles, dryness, the wrong angle or a snug hymen. Here is what to try, and when to get it checked.
Aunt Vadge: Can sexual activity ‘bring on’ my period?
Can sexual activity or an orgasm bring on your period? Aunt Vadge on why it can't, plus spotting after sex and late periods.
Aunt Vadge: why do I have pain after sex?
Sore, burning or bleeding after sex? Aunt Vadge on the usual cause, what else it could be, and when to get it checked.
Aunt Vadge: it burns and tingles after being with my boyfriend
A short sting after his fingers is usually friction or irritation, not something scary. Aunt Vadge on the causes, the cheap fixes and the red flags.
Aunt Vadge: Blisters, polyps, cysts and more – what’s a girl to do?
Vaginal blisters during your period? Cyclical vulval sores have several causes, from irritation to herpes. Here is how to work out which, and what to do.
Aunt Vadge: fingers freak me out
Scared of fingering when penetrative sex is fine? Aunt Vadge on vaginismus, pelvic floor tension, and gentle ways to ease it.
Aunt Vadge: dry, cracked fingers or my period?
Bleeding in clumps after a first time with dry, cracked fingers - usually a small graze or your period. How to tell, and when to worry.