Aunt Vadge: sores and swollen vulva – what’s happening to me?
Painful sores and a swollen vulva: likely causes, how to prepare for diagnosis, and the red flags that mean urgent care.
Aunt Vadge: so much blood after fingering – what’s wrong?
Heavy bleeding after fingering needs seeing – how to get confidential care, and the signs that mean urgent help.
Aunt Vadge: semen of different ethnicities and using metro gel as part of the BV treatment
She has a dirty weekend coming up and a few questions about BV and antibiotic gel and Latin men's semen.
Aunt Vadge: his penis touched the outside – can I be pregnant?
The real pregnancy risk when a penis only touches the outside, why your symptoms may be hormonal, and when to test.
Aunt Vadge: have I ruined my labia by masturbating?
Worried you've damaged your labia from masturbating? Why it's almost always normal variation, and how to look after it.
Aunt Vadge: clotorimazone cream burned my vagina
Burning, itching and flakes after clotrimazole are often irritation or contact dermatitis, not a chemical burn – how to soothe it and when to see a doctor.
Aunt Vadge: double vagina – what are my options for surgery?
A 23-year-old has just been diagnosed with a double vagina (longitudinal vaginal septum), and wants information on her surgical options to correct it.
Aunt Vadge: midnight itch
A woman has an itchy clitoris during the night, and wants some advice on how to manage the itch before she sees her doctor.
Aunt Vadge: Constant UTIs and thrush
A woman is concerned that she is a sex addict, while also trying to figure out how to prevent frequent UTIs and yeast infections.
Aunt Vadge: I’m moody and my vagina’s being weird – am I pregnant?
Unprotected sex just after your period, now moody with cramps and discharge? Why it's lower-risk but not zero, and what to do.
Aunt Vadge: trans man with a glans cut that won’t heal
A trans man has a clitoral cut that won't heal - we discuss why this might be happening and how he can fix it.
Aunt Vadge: bicycle accident has left my labia torn – what do I do?
A bicycle accident has left a young lady with a split labia.
Aunt Vadge: is it herpes? Or something?
Is this lump herpes, a sebaceous cyst, an ingrown hair, or a pimple? We discuss.
Aunt Vadge: my hymen is torn after a hard-on slip – will I be ok?
A 16-year-old virgin has an accidentally torn hymen from her boyfriend's penis. We discuss hymenal remnants.
Aunt Vadge: why does sex hurt my girlfriend so much?
A guy wants to know how he can have sex with his partner without it hurting.
Aunt Vadge: am I wrong to want vaginal intercourse?
You're within your rights to say no to oral sex; consenting to one act is never consenting to all.
Aunt Vadge: Are my vaginal tears herpes?
A clean split at the vaginal opening after sex is usually a friction tear rather than herpes, and here's how to tell and heal it.
Aunt Vadge: bleeding 3 days after fingering, fertile pre-cum
Light bleeding after rough fingering is usually a small tear, and here's when it's normal and when to get checked.
Aunt Vadge: Clumpy kefir and blood – what’s happening?
A Killing BV reader is curious about clumps of kefir and some bleeding, so Aunt Vadge swoops in with her advice.
Aunt Vadge: my BV medicaid fell through – what can I do?
How to treat BV at home when money's tight and you can't get the prescription.

