Aunt Vadge: sores and swollen vulva – what’s happening to me?

Painful sores and a swollen vulva: likely causes, how to prepare for diagnosis, and the red flags that mean urgent care.

Aunt Vadge: so much blood after fingering – what’s wrong?

Heavy bleeding after fingering needs seeing – how to get confidential care, and the signs that mean urgent help.

Aunt Vadge: semen of different ethnicities and using metro gel as part of the BV treatment

She has a dirty weekend coming up and a few questions about BV and antibiotic gel and Latin men's semen.

Aunt Vadge: his penis touched the outside – can I be pregnant?

The real pregnancy risk when a penis only touches the outside, why your symptoms may be hormonal, and when to test.

Aunt Vadge: have I ruined my labia by masturbating?

Worried you've damaged your labia from masturbating? Why it's almost always normal variation, and how to look after it.

Aunt Vadge: clotorimazone cream burned my vagina

Burning, itching and flakes after clotrimazole are often irritation or contact dermatitis, not a chemical burn – how to soothe it and when to see a doctor.

Aunt Vadge: double vagina – what are my options for surgery?

A 23-year-old has just been diagnosed with a double vagina (longitudinal vaginal septum), and wants information on her surgical options to correct it.

Aunt Vadge: midnight itch

A woman has an itchy clitoris during the night, and wants some advice on how to manage the itch before she sees her doctor.

Aunt Vadge: Constant UTIs and thrush

A woman is concerned that she is a sex addict, while also trying to figure out how to prevent frequent UTIs and yeast infections.

Aunt Vadge: I’m moody and my vagina’s being weird – am I pregnant?

Unprotected sex just after your period, now moody with cramps and discharge? Why it's lower-risk but not zero, and what to do.

Aunt Vadge: trans man with a glans cut that won’t heal

A trans man has a clitoral cut that won't heal - we discuss why this might be happening and how he can fix it.

Aunt Vadge: bicycle accident has left my labia torn – what do I do?

A bicycle accident has left a young lady with a split labia.

Aunt Vadge: is it herpes? Or something?

Is this lump herpes, a sebaceous cyst, an ingrown hair, or a pimple? We discuss.

Aunt Vadge: my hymen is torn after a hard-on slip – will I be ok?

A 16-year-old virgin has an accidentally torn hymen from her boyfriend's penis. We discuss hymenal remnants.

Aunt Vadge: why does sex hurt my girlfriend so much?

A guy wants to know how he can have sex with his partner without it hurting.

Aunt Vadge: am I wrong to want vaginal intercourse?

You're within your rights to say no to oral sex; consenting to one act is never consenting to all.

Aunt Vadge: Are my vaginal tears herpes?

A clean split at the vaginal opening after sex is usually a friction tear rather than herpes, and here's how to tell and heal it.

Aunt Vadge: bleeding 3 days after fingering, fertile pre-cum

Light bleeding after rough fingering is usually a small tear, and here's when it's normal and when to get checked.

Aunt Vadge: Clumpy kefir and blood – what’s happening?

A Killing BV reader is curious about clumps of kefir and some bleeding, so Aunt Vadge swoops in with her advice.

Aunt Vadge: my BV medicaid fell through – what can I do?

How to treat BV at home when money's tight and you can't get the prescription.

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