Aunt Vadge: we had safe sex but now my period is late – why?

A girl is worried she is pregnant, even though she's been safe. Is it possible?

Aunt Vadge: I have adrenal PCOS, high stress and gut issues, what should I do?

Sometimes PCOS can be caused or exacerbated by stress. When we are very stressed and have a lot going on PCOS can get complex and it is hard to know where to start.

Aunt Vadge: Is my cherry popped now?

If her boyfriend had blood on his hands, does it mean her hymen broke?

Aunt Vadge: bleeding after fingering, then 2 weeks later, sex – why so much blood?

Bleeding after sexual activities such as fingering or intercourse can be alarming, but often it's not a cause for concern. Aunt Vadge explains.

Aunt Vadge: my girlfriend and I want to try sex — how do we make it good?

A 14-year-old guy is preparing for sex with his girlfriend for the first time, but is worried that he will hurt her.

Aunt Vadge: is there any way to treat my underdeveloped ovaries and uterus?

A woman wants to know if her anatomical abnormality is fixable.

Aunt Vadge: sex cuts have become lumpy

She has been having a lot of rough sex, and now there are lumps where cuts used to be - what is it? We investigate.

Aunt Vadge: She has ripped her vagina “masturbating” – is my fiance cheating on me?

His fiance was in a hot tub, got a UTI, then a yeast infection, now she tore her labia masturbating. Is she cheating?

Aunt Vadge: what do you think about laser hair removal for hidradenitis suppurativa?

An HS sufferer wants to discuss laser hair removal as a management strategy for flare-ups.

Aunt Vadge: I’m bleeding heavily two days after being fingered – what’s happening?

She was fingered, but there was no bleeding, then two days later she is bleeding heavily. What is it?

Aunt Vadge: My vagina is so tight I can’t fit a penis into it

Is she too tight or is there something else going on?

Aunt Vadge: we had sex, but now my boyfriend has a red, itchy, sore penis – was it my thrush?

She had sex for the first time with her new boyfriend, but now he has a red, itchy, sore penis. What's gone on?

Aunt Vadge: four fingers and now I’m bleeding and sore – what’s happened?

She got finger-banged by her boyfriend with four fingers, which she likes, but now she's sore and bleeding. We discuss.

Aunt Vadge: Is my NuvaRing giving me major fissuring?

Recurring fissures and itching blamed on the NuvaRing are often an under-treated yeast infection - here's how to tell and what helps.

Aunt Vadge: when I masturbate with one finger, I always bleed. Why?

Painless bleeding when you finger yourself is usually a small, harmless spot - here's what causes it and why a quick check is worth it.

Aunt Vadge: my masturbation cuts are infected – what should I do?

Infected-looking cuts with swollen lymph nodes need a doctor and a swab - here's why, and how to care for the area meanwhile.

Aunt Vadge: I just had a baby and have a tear in my labia – how can I soothe it?

Easing a painful postpartum labial tear - the comfort measures that help, and why severe pain needs your midwife to check it.

Aunt Vadge: I had sex, now I’m bleeding and too scared to tell my mum

Non-stop bleeding after sex needs urgent care - how to get to a doctor today, even if you can't tell your mum what happened.

Aunt Vadge: I gave my boyfriend a BJ, then his penis touched my vulva – can I get pregnant?

Can dried, cleaned-up sperm get you pregnant from outside contact? Why the risk is very low, and when a test makes sense.

Aunt Vadge: my period is 10 days late – am I pregnant or is it something else?

A late period after protected sex is far more likely to be a skipped cycle than pregnancy – here's how to check and when to see a doctor.

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