Something else? Ask Aunt Vadge – bottom left of your screen!Aunt Vadge: my vulva is really, really sensitive
A vulva that stings when you wipe and stays dry is usually irritation, arousal or hormones – the likely causes and what to try.
Aunt Vadge: I have a tear on my urinary meatus that won’t heal
A non-healing urethral tear after vaginal mesh needs a urogynae review – here's what can help the tissue and when to act.
Aunt Vadge: painful sex that has resulted in a tear and brown discharge
A tear at the vaginal opening after painful sex usually heals in a week – the red flags to watch, and how to prevent it.
Aunt Vadge: weird smell after sex with a condom
Why you might notice a smell after sex with a condom, what's behind it, and when it's worth a quick swab.
Aunt Vadge: how can I help my girlfriend have a vaginal orgasm?
How to explore vaginal orgasms together - the anatomy, the g-spot truth, and why there's nothing to fix if she loves her clitoral orgasms.
Aunt Vadge: why am I so sore after fingering?
Sore or stinging after being fingered is usually tiny grazes that heal in days. How to soothe it, and the signs it's a urinary tract infection.
Aunt Vadge: I’m really scared of breaking my hymen
Your hymen stretches rather than breaks – how to make first-time sex comfortable, with no surgery needed.
Aunt Vadge: can fingering bring on a double period?
Fingering can't bring on a period – when two bleeds in a month is a harmless blip, and when to get it checked.
Aunt Vadge: My vagina is itchy after being fingered
Itching after fingering is usually healing – how to check your hymen, and why no doctor can tell you've been fingered.
Aunt Vadge: his precum touched me – could I be pregnant?
Precum can carry sperm, so the risk is low but not zero – your emergency contraception options and when to test.
Aunt Vadge: The tip (with a condom on) went in – could I be pregnant?
With a condom on and no semen, pregnancy is extremely unlikely – why your period is late and what first-time soreness means.
Aunt Vadge: I used hotel soap and now my vulva hurts
A sore, dry vulva after harsh hotel soap is usually contact dermatitis – how to soothe it and when to see a doctor.
Aunt Vadge: my vagina seems to be too tight – what can I do?
Feeling too tight is usually arousal and tension rather than size – how relaxation and arousal help, and when to seek care.
Aunt Vadge: itching, bleeding, and a bad smell after attempted sex and fingering
Itching, discharge and a foul smell after sex often points to BV - why to get a swab, and what fingering bleeding means.
Aunt Vadge: did I lose my virginity or is this my period? Or both?
Bleeding after brief contact is usually just your period - why virginity isn't a medical event, and when risk applies.
Aunt Vadge: my girlfriend was sexually abused – how can I help her with sex?
Supporting a partner who survived sexual abuse starts with trust, not sex - going slowly, and getting proper support.
Aunt Vadge: posterior fourchette tearing after sex – why is this happening?
Recurrent fourchette tears can come from the pill, herpes or skin conditions - why oestrogen may help, and getting properly examined.
Aunt Vadge: what does sex feel like?
An age-appropriate answer for a teen wondering what sex feels like - it shouldn't hurt, there's no rush, and who to ask.
Aunt Vadge: itchy, sore, tears, cracks… yeast treatment sort of worked. What next?
If antifungals only half-clear the itch and cracks, it may not be yeast - diet, gut support, and when to get a swab.
Aunt Vadge: pain after putting two tampons in
A spare tampon can't cause lasting damage - why pain that returns every period needs proper investigation.