Aunt Vadge: Why am I getting tears with my new boyfriend, but not my old one?
A woman is having problems with dryness and pain during sex.
Aunt Vadge: my boyfriend fingered me and went down on me and it hurt – why?
Her boyfriend has gone too hard on her vagina and now it's really sore.
Aunt Vadge: Why did I get fever and upset tummy after my boyfriend fingered me?
Her boyfriend had blood on his fingers after fingering, but then she got a fever and cramps and bad digestion. Are they connected?
Aunt Vadge: a cut at the join of my labia and clitoris hasn’t healed after three weeks
A woman is having issues with a vulvar tear that has left her labia a bit flappy.
Aunt Vadge: Am I cutting myself shaving or is a yeast infection?
Is it shaving cuts, herpes or a yeast infection?
Aunt Vadge: Are my cuts really from another yeast infection?
She's got what seems to be yeast-related cuts on her vulva, but is that really what's going on? We discuss.
Aunt Vadge: A little cucumber-shaped piece of tissue two inches inside my vagina
She has a small piece of flesh inside her vagina, two inches in, which she isn't sure about. What could it be?
Aunt Vadge: I bled after fingering, but now there’s a lump – what is it?
She was fingered, and after it bled for a couple of days, but now there is a lump. Why?
Aunt Vadge: I jumped off a 30-foot bridge and now have an inch-long tear
A 19-year-old has jumped off a massive bridge, causing a tear on her vulva an inch long.
Aunt Vadge: bleeding after fingering, but why this time?
She was fingered once and it was totally fine, then she was fingered again and it bled. What happened and why?
Aunt Vadge: why am I bleeding so much after just a small amount of fingering?
Her boyfriend's unpleasant fingering has left her with excessive bleeding three days later. What's happened?
Aunt Vadge: I haven’t had sex for two years – is my vag ok?
A woman is worried that her vagina may not be up to scratch after two years without sex and only masturbating.
Aunt Vadge: I’m so tight, I can’t have sex with my new husband – help!
A new wife is having major issues with vaginal tightness. We discuss what she can do to figure out what's wrong and solve the problem.
Aunt Vadge: What role is insulin resistance playing in my PCOS?
A woman is struggling to understand her stress-related PCOS symptoms.
Aunt Vadge: I only do anal with my boyfriend to stay a virgin, but it hurts
A 19-year-old is having anal sex with her boyfriend over vaginal sex to retain her virginity, but she's not really getting off on it. We talk it over.
Aunt Vadge: did my husband do something to our daughter?
A mother is worried that her husband may have touched her daughter inappropriately. How can she find out what's going on?
Aunt Vadge: is there a cream I can use to heal a vag shaving cut?
She cut her labia shaving - does she just leave it to heal or can she do something?
Aunt Vadge: my husband’s penis is so big it splits me every time we have sex
A 30-year-old woman has a well-endowed husband, and every time they have sex, her vagina splits. What can she do?
Aunt Vadge: we had safe sex but now my period is late – why?
A 16-year-old is worried she is pregnant, even though she's been safe. Is it possible?
Aunt Vadge: I have adrenal PCOS, high stress and gut issues, what should I do?
Sometimes PCOS can be caused or exacerbated by stress. When we are very stressed and have a lot going on PCOS can get complex and it is hard to know where to start.