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Aunt Vadge: I’m 35, a virgin, and I’ve got questions about sex!
Scared first-time sex will hurt, especially after a painful exam? It can absolutely be pleasurable - how to ease into penetration at your own pace.
Aunt Vadge: when I finger myself, it burns
Burning when you finger yourself is usually friction from going in before you're aroused and lubricated. How to fix it, and when it's thrush or BV.
Aunt Vadge: I don’t know how to finger myself – help!
New to fingering yourself and it feels too tight? You're probably not broken - you're just not aroused enough yet. A warm, real step-by-step guide.
Aunt Vadge: how do we have sex?
A virgin asks how to actually have sex - mechanics, talking, foreplay. A warm, real first-time guide that puts both people's pleasure first.
Aunt Vadge: why did fingering hurt the second time and not the first?
Fingering felt fine the first time but sore the second? Usually tender tissue and a tiny graze. How to make round two comfortable and pain-free.
How do lesbians lose their virginity?
When you are still technically a virgin or not is a complicated question based on old ideas of purity. You lose your virginity when you say you do!
Aunt Vadge: we were rough for my first time and I bled
Bled after rough first-time sex, then bled again when you checked? It's a small graze, and inspecting it reopened it. Leave it alone to heal - plus the newbie rules.
Aunt Vadge: vagina feels funny during fingering
Two fingers hurt sometimes but not other times, and you feel 'strange' things inside? That very inconsistency means you're normal - it's arousal, and your own anatomy.
Aunt Vadge: he put the tip in – could I be pregnant?
She was fooling around with her guy friend and he put the tip in. Now she's worried that his precum may have gotten her pregnant. Is she pregnant?
Aunt Vadge: how on earth do you have sex?
A young couple have never had sex and have no idea how to do it. How to get started?
Aunt Vadge: I’m new to fingering, and it bled a little bit the last time – why?
A 16-year-old girl has started fingering herself, but the last time, she bled a little bit.
Aunt Vadge: I only had my penis in her for a second – can she be pregnant?
Her period is 20 days late, but he just put his penis in for a second. Could she be pregnant?
Aunt Vadge: is there some kind of cherry to pop?
How is she supposed to fit that giant penis into her tiny vagina? How sex works.
Aunt Vadge: I only do anal with my boyfriend to stay a virgin, but it hurts
A 19-year-old is having anal sex with her boyfriend over vaginal sex to retain her virginity, but she's not really getting off on it. We talk it over.
Aunt Vadge: I had sex, now I’m bleeding and too scared to tell my mum
Non-stop bleeding after sex needs urgent care - how to get to a doctor today, even if you can't tell your mum what happened.
Aunt Vadge: I’m really scared of breaking my hymen
Your hymen stretches rather than breaks – how to make first-time sex comfortable, with no surgery needed.
Aunt Vadge: The tip (with a condom on) went in – could I be pregnant?
With a condom on and no semen, pregnancy is extremely unlikely – why your period is late and what first-time soreness means.
Aunt Vadge: did I lose my virginity or is this my period? Or both?
Bleeding after brief contact is usually just your period - why virginity isn't a medical event, and when risk applies.
Aunt Vadge: my hymen split horse riding – will my future husband know?
Sticky questions about the hymen and virginity.
What ‘being a virgin’ actually means (and doesn’t mean)
Being a virgin is a complicated business these days.
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