Something else? Ask Aunt Vadge – bottom left of your screen!Aunt Vadge: my masturbation cuts are infected – what should I do?
Infected-looking cuts with swollen lymph nodes need a doctor and a swab - here's why, and how to care for the area meanwhile.
Aunt Vadge: how can I help my girlfriend have a vaginal orgasm?
How to explore vaginal orgasms together - the anatomy, the g-spot truth, and why there's nothing to fix if she loves her clitoral orgasms.
Aunt Vadge: why am I so sore after fingering?
Burning when you pee after fingering is usually small scrapes – how to care for it, and the signs of a urine infection.
Aunt Vadge: My vagina is itchy after being fingered
Itching after fingering is usually healing – how to check your hymen, and why no doctor can tell you've been fingered.
Aunt Vadge: my vagina seems to be too tight – what can I do?
Feeling too tight is usually arousal and tension rather than size – how relaxation and arousal help, and when to seek care.
G-spot and clitoris augmentation and amplification
G-spot and clitoris augmentation can enable better sexual experiences and more intense orgasms.
A hands-on guide to getting to know your vulva
We explain how to truly investigate your vulva so you know what every part is called, what it feels like, and what it should be doing.
What is an orgasm?
Orgasm in women still hasn't been quite properly defined - some women say they are orgasming, but there is no outward sign.
Things that can go wrong during sex
Find out what can go wrong and how to circumvent it before it happens to you.
How to get better at talking about what you like sexually
Trying to have better sex without feeling like you are bumming the other person out takes some tact, so here are some tips.
How girls masturbate
Learning how to touch yourself in a way that feels good is a process that each woman goes through during her life. We discuss how girls masturbate.
Aunt Vadge: why is she wet, but then we stop, and it’s then dry?
Wetness doesn't always match arousal, and vaginas dry as fluids get used up - why it happens, and how lube helps.
Aunt Vadge: my vagina is now drying up during stimulation
Getting dry partway through stimulation is usually about hormones and arousal, not something being wrong – here's what changes it, and how to help.
Aunt Vadge: are there women who don’t like vaginal sex?
Yes, plenty of women don't orgasm from penetration and are perfectly happy sticking to oral, fingers and toys – it's completely normal.
Aunt Vadge: When my penis goes into my lover’s vagina, I ejaculate too quickly – help!
Ejaculating too fast during sex is premature ejaculation – very common and very beatable. Here's how to work on it, and please your partner meanwhile.
Aunt Vadge: I got touched through my clothes and now it’s bleeding and sore
Bleeding and stinging after being rubbed through your clothes is usually a graze that heals in days – here's how to soothe it, and when to get checked.
Aunt Vadge: I’m scared sex stuff is going to hurt
Scared first-time sex will hurt? The fix is arousal – a turned-on vagina lubricates and cushions itself. Here's how to prepare, step by step.
STI testing
Getting an STI test is a good idea, especially if you (or your partner) likes sex with more than one person.
How to deal with cuts and tears from fingering and rough sex
Vaginal and vulvar cuts and tears are easy with fingering and rough sex, so while you figure out how to avoid them next time, heal them up quick with our suggestions.
Understanding persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD) and genito-pelvic dysesthesia (GPD)
Persistent genital arousal is a condition whereby the genitals are in a state of hyperarousal at inopportune moments.